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    A great result:) I wanna share!!!

    Well the big day arrived and I went to be assessed by the psych in the gender clinic in Leeds. I was extremely nervous but took on my usual laid back approach to the situation. It did kick off my dysphoria but only mildly nothing I couldn't cope with. I ended up with the psych my nurse specialist and some other woman who was who was training to join the team. so all in all there was 5 of us.

    He asked me all the questions I expected plus a few others which could have potentially threw me but they didn't. I was able to answer everything with ease. We even had a few jokes about personality traits of mine which he got spot on and then at the end we joked about my belt of all things as its one that I let hang down in the middle. He thought that was out of line with how I am so I said to him, 'Well after all I am a contradiction in terms you know!!!' He thought that was really funny

    He gave me his diagnosis LOL... A typical transsexual with a typical transsexuals brain. I loved that one as you can imagine

    His bests comments by far were that every patient is assessed for their individual needs and that the pace at which each individual patient progresses through the system is based on their individual needs through this assessment.
    He also stated that he only holds one percent of the power and that I hold 99 percent of the power when it comes to my needs.



    Ok what was agreed...

    On the next visit at the end of March I have to evidence my real life experience, this is basically for want of a better way of describing it so I can be fast tracked.

    I need to see their endocrinologist for her assessment of my bloods and I need to get more bloods from my doctor so I can take the readings to her so she can make some comparisons.

    Mean while they will be asking for an appointment at Leicester Gender Clinic where I will be assessed again for a second opinion even though I've had two already lol!!

    By my next visit in April I should have had that and then they can refer me to a surgeon regarding my chest surgery.

    So all in all a great result and I am extremely pleased and happy with the thought that I may have this sorted by next year. Although if I challenge I may get it sooner from what we know already.

    Well that's it for now, I'll keep ya posted peeps xx Felix
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    Hey Felix

    That's good news
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    Excellent Babes... Really super news
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    It all starts with a single step, no? And the therapist is right about the power thing, or as I see it, answears. I knew from the moment I stepped through the door that I wouldn't get any answears from the therapist, they were already inside me. I just needed to find the right questions to ask, and to be honest about how I answeared myself. Good luck, the hardest part is over. Carol

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    That's really good news- things seem to be moving along well for you!
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    Great news Felix
    Can i ssume from this the beers will be on you next time we meet up with you ?

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    Hey Felix, good news....Glad to hear it, dude.
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    Great news Felix
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    Thats pretty cool Felix
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    wooooooooo! Happy Dance time! Good for you.

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    hay, grate news!

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    That's awesome Felix, things are flying forward for you.

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    Thanx peeps, I'm still hyper from it all

    Yep lets break out the Rum, come on Captain xx Felix
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    Somebody said RUM?

    Congrats, Felix! It's really good to see that you're not worried about jumping through the bureaucratic hoops. You're self-confidence is your very best asset in this adventure. And your sense of humor will carry you through the little dips that may come.

    Happy, happy, happy for ya, darlin'!


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    Congratulations! I'm pleased for you.

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    Great news Felix
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    Quote Originally Posted by Felix View Post

    He gave me his diagnosis LOL... A typical transsexual with a typical transsexuals brain. I loved that one as you can imagine
    LOL - I've actually heard something similar from my doctor. I agree, it's very funny!

    Felix, it sounds like things are going well and the progress feels great, doesn't it?

    Wishing you the best.

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    Thanx Karla and MJ xx Felix
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    Good for you! I hope the rest of life goes just as smooth for you. All the best.
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    Awwwww Thanx Majestyk xx Felix
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    You're very welcome Felix!
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    Felix, long time my old friend.

    I am pleased that things are finally beginning to gel for you. Man you have been through hell and back and deserve a break. I am sure it will all work out soon and you can get what is needed for you.


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    Awwww thanx Kimberley so much my friend and yeah it's nice that I gotta break at last or a few breaks in fact. Think I'm just longing for my chest surgery now but it will come soon enough. Take cares Hun xx
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