Cardinal sins

[PanteeQueen]

Hey gals,

Need your help again. I am wondering what are some of the cardinal sins out there for crossdressing? I think the only one I am aware of is that I need to have my own stuff. Thanks

Ciao,

PQ

[leslie ann]

how about telling your s/o !!I read on here somewhere that someone said they wouldnt sleep with someone without telling them first i like that idea

[Ashlyee Paige]

1. Don't out another sister or brother without their permission
2. Use the proper pronouns when dealing with someone (he/she)
3. Have your own stuff
4. No white shoes after labor day (is that still a rule?)
5. Don't CLASH you wardrobe, always accessorize!
6. Don't cheat on your SO
7. Sit with your legs CLOSED
8. Don't pass gas, belch, or pick your nose in public
9. Don't use drugs to alter your body unless you KNOW the consequences
10. SMILE!

I know theres more but my handbook is in PDF on my IPhone and its on the charger. Did I miss any girls?

[Kate Simmons]

There are no "rules", there are no "laws". A real person, however, considers the feelings of others and not just themself.

[Vicky_Scot]

Do Not Dress Like A Tart.....Look at what you are going to be doing or what you are attending and dress appropriately.

Do Not Use The Male Toilet......If presenting yourself en femme then use the ladies/disabled toilet.

Xx Vicky xX

[tricia_uktv]

It al depends where you are and what you are doing. I love dress loke a tart sometimes but am not going to do it if I am shopping r walking around the City. Naturally I look demure then ha-ha. The one rule I would definately agree with is Smile.

[tamarav]

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[Sarah...]

Hey gals,

Need your help again. I am wondering what are some of the cardinal sins out there for crossdressing? I think the only one I am aware of is that I need to have my own stuff. Thanks

Ciao,

PQ

They are the same as for being a human being in general.

Sarah...

[Sammy777]

1. Don't out another sister or brother without their permission
2. Use the proper pronouns when dealing with someone (he/she)
3. Have your own stuff or have permission
4. No white shoes after labor day (is that still a rule?)
5. Don't CLASH you wardrobe, always accessorize!
6. Don't cheat on your SO
7. Sit with your legs CLOSED
8. Don't pass gas, belch, or pick your nose in public
9. Don't use drugs to alter your body unless you KNOW the consequences
10. SMILE!

6a. Sex with someone opposite the gender of your SO is still cheating, lol.

7a. or at least cross them like a lady.

While not rules, some things you should try and avoid:
Going out in 6 inch heels and a 6 inch mini skirt or a pink prom dress.
With no make-up, a beard and flip flops food shopping on a wed afternoon.

*Unless that is the look you were really shooting for.*

[kellycan27]

Act like a lady.

[gretchen2]

Don’t pick your nose? Well that’s just going too far. What if you got a real winner up there?

[JoAnne Wheeler]

Here in Kentucky, if you are a UK fan (Kentucky Wildcats) you never

mention the word Cardinal (UL -> University of Louisville) ,so being a

die-hard UK fan, (and that's what we have been lately) , then I will

respond to the Main Sins of the Crossdressing Society:

1) Not telling and confiding in your spouse about your

crossdressing

2) Outing a sister - anywhere without permission

3) using your spouse or SO's clothes or make-up

4) looking better while dressed than your spouse or SO

5) spending all your money on your clothes and nothing or very

little on your spouse or SO

6) not wearing age appropriate clothing, make-up, wigs, shoes

and trying to look like a twenty year old when you are 60

years old

7) cheating on your spouse or SO - includes relationships with

crossdressers, gay men, gay women - just cheating with

anyone - or anything for you kinky folks

8) frowning instead of smiling

9) wearing a short, short mini-skirt with your legs apart

10) using female hormones without supervision and without

reading about the side effects of hormones on your body

11) looking tacky or tarty in public - just try to blend in

12) using the male restroom while dressed as a female - use

the womens

13) using your male name when you are dressed - use your

female name

14) going out in public when you just plain don't pass

15) not acting as a lady at all times

16) trying to walk in 5" to 6" heels w/o being proficient even in

2" - 3" heels

17) going out in public while dressed and wearing a beard or

mustache

18) not reading this FORUM religously


JoAnne Wheeler

[StaceyJane]

Don't purge!!

[Ashlyee Paige]

I agree with all those but #4 and #14,
#4 Always try to look better than your SO! :> lol
#14 Not to go in public if you do not pass: passing does not mean anything its about personal expression so don't ever worry if you pass or not, go out and have FUN!

+1 Stacy- been so long I forgot that one! NEVER EVER PURGE!

[JoAnne Wheeler]

My bad - thank you for showing me the errors of my post - Tina Turner is

one of my role models ! She can wear whatever she wants and look good

no matter what she is wearing.


Secondly you are right about passing - it really makes no difference so long

as you can express your feminine side in any way that you can


My bad!

JoAnne Wheeler

[Tina B.]

1) Not telling and confiding in your spouse about your

crossdressing

6) not wearing age appropriate clothing, make-up, wigs, shoes

and trying to look like a twenty year old when you are 60

years old

11) looking tacky or tarty in public - just try to blend in

13) using your male name when you are dressed - use your

female name

14) going out in public when you just plain don't pass

15) not acting as a lady at all times

17) going out in public while dressed and wearing a beard or

mustache

JoAnne Wheeler

1) does not work for everybody, know your spouse and act accordingly!
6) what is appropriate for me may not suit you, or vice versus.
11) tacky is in the eye of the beholder, see answer to 6).
13) is not a rose by any other name, just as sweet?
14) some days none of us could go out if thats a rule.
15) --17) I think you might get an argument from Butterfly Bill and Ralph with these two!

I only believe there is one rule! Don't do it unless you are enjoying it!!!!!!
As Karren would say "Just my humble opinon"
Tina

[Sarah Doepner]

how about these?

If you use the ladies room, don't stand to pee.

Respect the women we emulate.

[docrobbysherry]

1. ALWAYS DRESS like a NUBILE YOUNG TART!
( If you're home alone, or you're going out, AND U CAN PULL OFF that look!)
( "Age appropriate clothing", is a phrase that should be reserved for little old ladies, NOT little old CDs!)

2. ALWAYS know when half price day is, at your local Goodwill or thrift shop!

3. NEVER dress like a hooker, or drag queen, if you're going out shopping!
( Which SHOULD mean, to your local Goodwill, or thrift store).

4. Whatever your fantasy of CDing involves, don't allow anyone to throw cold water on it!

5. Last CDing rule is the most important: " There r NO rules"!

[Angie G]

Ashlyee I don't think the white shoe rule applies anymore hun.
Angie

[Karren H]

Not having your VISA card limit set high enough to buy anything you want!!