There's a lot going on here so I will try to break it down.
I've been married for almost 5 years, known DH for almost 10. Always known he was a CD.
We are both out of work which has put a huge strain on our marriage.
DH has a drug habit and His father died a month ago and it has been very hard on him.
He says he wants to have other partners, engage in play but not necessarily sex. I am not too happy about this because it could open me up to illness and disease because I am not sure if he would be completely safe about it.
He has a history of anxiety and depression and refuses to see a doctor about it. He is seeing a family counselor but I believe he needs more serious help, like in a hospital and/or rehab setting.
On Monday night he came home from a friend's and he was high as a kite. . Since then, he has locked himself in the 2nd bedroom and has barely come out -- just to bathe yesterday and today. I know he has hardly eaten.
I am at my wit's end with this situation. Anyone deal with addicts who are CDs?
Thanks for listening.