GOOD LUCK - I never told my spouse - but she found out - you are in a
really tough spot - if you really love her and if she really loves you, I would
honestly bring it up and talk about it - it would be a lot worse for her to find
out on her own and if you have read many of the articles (posts) on this
Forum, you know that in the long run, it would be best to tell her
JoAnne Wheeler