Well the cat is out of the bag that I am a cross dresser.
It seems that while my adopted daughter 'R' was out enjoying herself with fiends of her own age. This included one of her adopted 'S' sisters who hates me and doesn't really like 'R' anymore. 'R' needs to continue to associate with 'S' for a while longer.
Well 'S', while trying to express how much she hates me and 'R', said at the table of 8 people in a very crowded country club, in a loud voice to 'R' but so everyone could hear: "And you are living with that weirdo cross dressing photographer".
'R' rents a room from me and is my business manager/studio-house maintainer/adopted daughter.
I do know who told 'S' and am very unhappy in the breach of confidentiality. This disclosure has most likely killed my business in this area as a photographer.
Well it is impossible to go back and unsay what has been said. So I will go back into my hermit mode in this town.