We were just dating at the time, but i didn't realize that you could look up anyones purchases on eBay. So I had purchased some female articles of clothing and she just happen to find out what I had purchased and wanted to know who I was buying them for. So I told her. Thought she was gonna leave for sure, but she was actually relieved. So we had the talks and went thru the questions and worked it all out and we are now happily married!