When I first came out to my wife, she wasn't accepting at all - she had told me I could keep my fem things, but didn't want to see me in them. I don't know when it happened exactly, but sometime in the last couple of years she came to be accepting of it and it's getting better all the time. We frequently talk about girly things when time allows and our " shopping dates" have become one of our favorite things to do in our spare time. Her acceptance has helped me relax greatly when shopping, to the point where we can get something at the same shop and I don't care anymore if the SA thinks "One of these outfits is way too big for his wife!" A while back when shopping at Penney's, if I were to buy something for myself, we would ask for a gift receipt as a smokescreen, now we just go for it, and don't worry about what others might think. Last time we went shopping together, we looked at things and talked in a manner, that anyone listening would have been able to guess that we were both looking for ourselves. We both ended up buying a top, and I was thrilled when my wife helped me pick out earrings and a necklace to go with mine!! Anyway, my main point is that my wife and I have always had a great relationship and her accepting me as a CD has only made it better!!