So I have a couple of daughters they're 12 & 15 years old. The older one has been making a lot of comments to me about wearing girls clothes culminating yesterday with asking me if I dress like a girl when I'm with certain friends (I'm often the only male around a group of lesbian friends). So I totally freaked out over this and figured she must have found my stuff or I was careless and left a pic on my computer, something. So I asked her why she was saying that stuff and finally asked her what she would do if I did dress like a girl with my friends. At this point she got quiet for about 15 seconds which is a long time for her. She asked if I was messing with her and I said NO, that I did and just wanted to know how she found out before I told her. She told me she had no idea and was just joking because she thought it was funny. So I came out to her thinking she already knew when she didn't. She asked some questions about why and if I was gay or still liked women and I answered all her questions honestly and then she said it was no big deal and wondered why I was so worried about it. She asked if my other friends knew, they do, and she was a little upset I waited to tell her and asked me to let her know when I dressed at home so she wouldn't be shocked when she walked in the house. So she was awesome about it and today she still trated me like I am the same old dad. I asked her ot to tell her sister yet and she was fine with that. I'm just so proud of her for being a great kid.