Lately I have been somewhat testy, especially with the women in my life. I couldn't understand why I resented so many trivial things women do or how they're responded to. I would use logic to criticize these female traits and even the way society responds differently to women, mostly just thinking to myself, but sometimes in a discussion. I know I got my daughter a bit upset the other day with this.
Then it hit me, I'm jealous. Not about these traits or how their treated but because I think and react so much like a woman now but am treated like a man. More and more I see myself understanding how or why a woman says or does things. I see myself saying and doing the same things. But I still am treated like a man. I want validation for my feelings, which are far more female than male. It's so frustrating!
I know physically I am male but mentally, there's no way I'm male. Sure, there's a lot of learned responses and methods of doing things but they are falling by the wayside little by little.
It makes me wonder if this is all a predecessor to finally admitting transitioning is what I need to do. Just writing that brings tears to my eyes.