OK so I am not sure the best place, didn't want to put it in loved ones...
yeah so -
A CD will purge, or a TS will go back to living as a man...
...when they find a lover.
I don't get that. It is like they are so hardcore CD or TS before but then when their princess comes along, they want to be a man again all the sudden, and never do anything feminine, they are now manly men...
And then to make it worse, as soon as the relationship ends, suddenly they are TS'ing or CD'ing again.
What if it is a TS who has really gone far down the TS path? Wouldn't it be kind of hard to "man up [in several ways]" all the sudden?
I know this is not all TS or CD, but I have seen at least a few follow this pattern. What gives?