dressing for me is only a desperate attempt to relieve my gender dyisphoric anxiety! Not so much about the clothes but trying to reach a normal comfort level in relation to who I am. I am not happy as a man and was unwilling to admit that for most of my life!
Kelsy
Born female intended
" Don't die with your music still in you!"
Yes, I do want to be a female, but only in America and to be a hot chick! Mostly, myself if I was born a girl!
All I can say is that I'm me. Part of me is femme. Part of me is guy. Do I want to give up being male? No way. Do I want to wear femme clothes? You betcha! Do I want to be treated as a woman when I'm out and about? Of course and I am.
Well, I'm very much male...and I don't find myself attracted at all to the "muscly" type guys. Not at all.
But a tender, feminine guy dressed as he should be (silks, satins, swirly, girly things)...that I can go for.
And of course, GGs!
But I'll stay a male....and dress as feminine as I can whenever I can.
Personally I would like to be a female and have for a very long time.
[SIZE=4]When I crossdress it is as a male. I only did it while at Disneyworld to keep my skin out of the sun. But I still used the ladies rooms and no one ever gave me a second look. So the answer for me is: I AM FEMALE!
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[SIZE=2]Ascended Ancient[/SIZE]
myself i dont want to be female, the entire excitement for me is that im a man dressing as a women
Hi all,
I lived as a female for a whole two weeks at home while my wife was on vacation. Everything i did at home was fem, wc, nightie, shoes, legs, hair the lot and realised if i could get away with it thats what i would gladly do all the time. My body movements seemed all too easy being femenine, i loved it. However a plus is having both lives ?????
I wear womens clothes because I like it. It's great looking like a woman, but I'm a man and am quite happy to stay that way.
queen for a day
if i were to change it would have to be for short periods of time. you know change into a girl for 2-3 days and then change back. and if i could change i would be alot smaller. but i would like to experience thing a girl can do. but i enjoy being a man most of the time!
Do Most Crossdressers Want To Be Female? That's a very smart question.
My answer is probably not mainstream but I'll give it anyway.
For me, personally, trying to be a female is like a rock that wants to be a tree. That is never going to happen no matter how hard I try or what ever changes I make to my physical self.I will never truly be a tree.
The only thing I can be is my best interpretation of what I think a tree should be. I need to be content with that.
That is the reality of it. ( I know it's bummer but it's the truth.)
CANCER IS A BITCH SO YOU HAVE TO BE MORE OF A BITCH TO BEAT IT.
I am ALL girl... and I am ALL guy...
I most certainly want to be a woman, but if I were, I'd most certainly want to be a man!!
So I'll be happy as I am.
I'll second this...Originally Posted by dawnmarrie1961
Do Most Crossdressers Want To Be Female? That's a very smart question.
My answer is probably not mainstream but I'll give it anyway.
For me, personally, trying to be a female is like a rock that wants to be a tree. That is never going to happen no matter how hard I try or what ever changes I make to my physical self.I will never truly be a tree.
The only thing I can be is my best interpretation of what I think a tree should be. I need to be content with that.
That is the reality of it. ( I know it's bummer but it's the truth.)
The older I get, the more real I feel. And what I feel is not all that I am. [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
Please visit me on Facebook - Dina Walker http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100003166749185
I transitioned from male to female 3 1/2 years ago.
I am a beautiful, fully femininized male to female pre-op transwoman, in my early 40s, who looks, dresses, and acts like a woman and who easily passes as a beautiful feminine lady. Unless they know otherwise (obviously my man, my family, and close friends know), people assume I am a genetic woman (with a sultry feminine alto voice).
It took some time and money to transition from male to female. I went on estrogen and anti-androgens which feminized my body and features. I also had facial feminization surgery, and got breast implants to enhance my estrogen grown breasts.
I am a beautiful feminine lady and I am loving it.
I have long blonde hair, am good with my makeup, wear earrings in my pierced ears, have a pierced left nostril and wear a small nosestud, and I love dressing very feminine in beautiful dresses, skirts and blouses, fashion scarves, lingerie, nylons and high heels, etc..
I am 5'11" tall, weigh 130 lbs. with a 36-24-34 figure, have a beautiful woman's face, and live essentially as the wife, of a wonderful handsome masculine man (who adores beautiful transwomen), and am also the stepmom of his young son that he had with a genetic woman (and no, the young boy does not know I am a transwoman, he assumes I am a genetic woman. We will tell him when he gets older).
I get along great with my ex-wife, my daughters that I fathered, and other family members, and good friends. I am fortunate that the people I know have accepted my transition from male to female.
I don't want to be female... I just want to enjoy all the fun aspects while reaping the benefits of being a male.
I have never really wanted to be born a girl, nor would I say I've ever felt totally like a girl. Of course dressing is part of my identity, but I am a male who enjoys dressing up for a million different reasons.
Given the opportunity to be either male or female, I would choose to be female 24/7. Alas, life's not so simple, and I cannot go down that road without vastly complicating my life....
sometimes I wish i was a girl and other times I don't I guess it depends
I know it won't happen during this trip, but if my soul, energy, being, spirit, essence, whatever, renews or comes back again, I only hope that the next ride is as a female, woman, hopefully intelligent, and at least moderately attractive.
Heels make me wobble but I won't fall down,
Renee
Couldn't agree more, Mira!I don't want to be female... I just want to enjoy all the fun aspects while reaping the benefits of being a male.
I have never really wanted to be born a girl, nor would I say I've ever felt totally like a girl. Of course dressing is part of my identity, but I am a male who enjoys dressing up for a million different reasons.
There's still a lot to be said for the ability to pee standing up. Mind you, I could stand doing without the shaving part, though.
I think seriously that I would like to be a woman. One of my biggest fantisies is having sex as a woman. I don't consider myself gay but to experience that part of life as a woman is definately on my mind.
Maybe I shouldn't post on here?
[SIZE=4]Reason being I was never a CD. But much of what BlondeAngela says also applies to me. One difference, I had no surgery of any kind, and haven't had HRT, I am just lucky to have this body as feminine as it already is.
I am 30 years older than she is and a 36-24-36 figure is not possible for me, without total surgery reshaping ha ha, but I can always wish![/SIZE]
[SIZE=2]Ascended Ancient[/SIZE]
I think I would really enjoy being a female...I pretty sure I would enjoy living as one on a full time basis...Even though its a Man's world, women have the power to control and rule if they desire to do so...But Im not the dominating type but just the opposite...Being a man is so boring...
Dana Lynn
I know for me, I love to be a woman at certain times. I would love to be cute and sexy a lot of the time. But I also love and appreciate the masculinity of myself. I like being able to thrust myself into whichever persona I feel like, without constraints.
I would have not complained if I was born a female. Women are so beautiful and are revered as so. A beautiful woman can stop ANYONE in their tracks, that is amazing! But I like being a sensitive man who can relate and have deep thought and conversation with females. Lucky for me I have a girlfriend who understands and is supportive. I also have a good friend who is a girl that loves the fact she can dress me up and can take me shopping!
I'd have to say that I don't want to be female. In fact, I'm not trying to pass. I simply enjoy women's clothes, so I try to find things I can wear that are more neutral.
~Jeanine
Hey mods... this question comes up so often, why not turn it into a poll? I'm really curious about the demographics on cd.com. You could have choices like...
- don't even try to pass, don't want to
- would like to pass for looks, but I'm still all man
- I'm the best part of both all the time
- I want to completely be a woman, just for a little while
- Would like / currently in a relationship with a man
- I think of myself as fully female but not planning SRS
- Pre-op TS
- Post-op TS
Did I cover all the popular choices?
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