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    Member jessiejess112's Avatar
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    lol, I would: I like the way she dresses and she looks like fun

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    I would want to date my fem self, but I don't think she would want to date me.

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    um this is a tough one for me and one main reason for wanting to go to a shrink. there is already 2 of me, Adam the crossdresser and then there is Julie. We are constantly arguing (i lve alone, who else am i gonna talk to) about the crossroad we face. we have almost totally different personalities and our likes and dislikes are night and day. i have a pretty good idea who will win this internal fight and i will miss him sometimes. so i guess my answer is no, it would be like me dating my sister/daughter.
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    I just broke up with myself. It seems that I am vain and shallow. Go figure
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lorileah View Post
    I just broke up with myself. It seems that I am vain and shallow. Go figure
    gives Lorileah a comforting shoulder and a load of
    I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
    Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me

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    Oh gosh, I've dated myself lots of times. I know what a phone with a rotary dial is, and a record changer with a 45rpm spindle, also phone exchanges with letters in them, black and white television, lots of stuff. Sometimes it just slips out. Uhh, that is what you meant, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lorileah View Post
    I just broke up with myself. It seems that I am vain and shallow. Go figure
    OMG, that was so funny

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    Absolutely I would. The picture of what I have in my head of what my femme self is, is totally my dream girl. I'll post back later as Lacie and tell you what she thinks, but I would.

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    Sam,I thought I already was. Everywhere I go. There "She" is!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joni Marie Cruz View Post
    Oh gosh, I've dated myself lots of times. I know what a phone with a rotary dial is, and a record changer with a 45rpm spindle, also phone exchanges with letters in them, black and white television, lots of stuff. Sometimes it just slips out. Uhh, that is what you meant, right?

    Hugs...Joni Mari
    i know what those are too.
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    That first step you take is the longest stride

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    I'm not about to cheat on my wife, but if I ever did, she'd be the girl to do it with. First of all, she knows exactly what buttons to push to turn me on, secondly she's the one girl in the world I could be absolutely sure about her discretion: If the affair came out, not only would she have just as much to lose as I did, but EXACTLY the same thing to lose as me.

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    Hell yes! We'd have wild bondage, and sex roleplay!

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    Dating my femme self...hmmm

    The answers have been all over the map so let me see if I can identify some groundrules for myself:

    1) We are talking about dating my feminine being, as a GG:

    Under this circumstance we have the same knowledge, but not necessarily the same opinions based upon those facts, so it wouldn't be boring. We would certainly be compatible in terms of intimacy, so that's ok. This looks better and better all the time!

    2) We are talking about dating my feminine self, as a transwoman:

    Ah, no, since we are both interested in women. Maybe we could double date! Now that would be interesting!!!

    3) We are talking about dating my feminine self, as a transwoman, and we both are ok with the gender issues:

    As long as I'm single, see 1).



    tina

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    Nah, I'm to frigging bonkers even for me





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    Hell Yeah

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    Being a narcissistic cross dresser? Of course!!!!

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    Well I never did answer my own question.
    Seriously I didn't think anybody would respond to this question.

    The answer for me would be no, I couldn't date myself for a few reasons like:
    I can be an a**hole at times and well she can be a real b*tch at other times.
    We would probably kill each other, or destroy a small town if we got together, LOL.
    Or maybe, we would rule the worlllllddddd <evil laugh>.....</evil laugh>

    It was nice to see that the GG's are also getting in the action of this surprisingly popular thread with their own thread. Thank You Tamara for starting it.
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    date ?

    [SIZE="4"]YES!!!!!!!![/SIZE]
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    I'd date myfemme self! Afterall we have so much in common.
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    Hard to say. Aubrey is a goody-two-shoes. She doesn't drink, so not much of a partier or barfly. She enjoys deep thought books, would rather watch sports than play. She does love the outdoors and in private times, she is a tigeress. She loves to girltalk with the ladies, but not a gossiper. She has a petite body and is 5'8", which is kind of a turn on. Hard to say for sure. It's always the quiet ones, you have to watch out for.

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    Hey, why not? We could share clothes!

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    I think I do.
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    Talking good question

    now for my answer...

    YES

    I can honestly say that my girly persona and my bloke mode would be a perfect match for each other.

    Now all I have to do is find a GG that matches my girly self perfectly and my search for happyness will be over.

    So with out going into depth over my other deviancies , ENOUGH SAID!!!

    In other words "what Nessa88 said"!!!
    Last edited by sarahNZ; 06-21-2009 at 07:12 AM. Reason: hindsight
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    No, I don't see any reason to date myself being that I have already gotten into her pants. She is sooo easy.

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    Every time I date myself I get hand lotion all over my skirt and make a big mess.

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