Hi Everyone,
As some of you may know I am new here and new to CD. I am married and my wife has been amazingly understanding and supportive. She has shopped for underwear, shoes and a skirt for me and has painted my toenails also. However the biggest tension/developing problem is; I know longer wish to be the 'typical dominant male' in the bedroom and my wife does? I can't blame her as this has always been our previous way of lovemaking. However I just don't feel dominant like that and in fact would prefer if she was.
We both love each other to peices and want to work through this. I feel totally guilty all the time because it is me who has changed. We are a little confused in the bedroom about who should or wants to take the lead/dominant role and it is causing tension and a few tears.
Can anyone relate to this? been through this? offer any advise or suggest good internet sites or blogs for us to read through etc?
Any positive help would be appreciated, This is my first proper thread question as so far I have bee welcoming others and making small talk etc, as I have so appreciated all the welcoming comments I recieved when I joined this site just two weeks ago. can I say to all of you who comment in the introduction thread 'THANK YOU! you do not know how much it helps and you make a real difference.
On a separate note if anyone wants to be friends with me please get in touch?love to talk share etc.
Hugs
Honey