Originally Posted by
Chrissycd
it might be difficult to get your spouse or SO to go, but they have a website that would help introduce them to the idea and see that it really is a good, healthy, nonthreatening opportunity. If you're SO is so absolutely disagreeable and in so much denial about who you really are, then, well, to be honest, maybe you might as well not even BE married to someone so selfish anyway. Hello??? Whose living YOUR life anyway, you or your SO?
The other "problem" Julie mentions confuses me. SPICE IS for couples so it's pretty much a given that the only people it would be useful for are people who are not single...right? Single people wouldn't need SPICE b/c they don't have an SO to have a conflict with.
I guess I thought more girls would find this resource to be useful. It seems like so many sneak around and hide from their SO or else act all shameful and apologetic about being true to themselves w/ their SO's that I thought this might be better received. Maybe it's just easier for some to just live in misery. I was just trying to help.