This is not another how can we be both man and woman to SO's
No, this is a question on how we expect the LGBT community to support us in getting more respect and rights and then so many of the posts make a point that they are not gay and want nothing to do with being associated with the gays.
So in honor of those 7 foot tall Drag Queens who didn't throw shoes but threw bricks (stole that from a radio spot) 40 years ago, can we ask the GLBT community to support us and in the same breath say "I'm not GAY!" like it is a bad thing? If we disassociate ourselves from the community, would you be more willing to fight for what you think you should be entitled to?