I wonder if others too find that even though your wife knows of your interest in crossdressing, they would prefer not too much candor. I mean that the old argument that if you are going to do something, do it in front of the other person. I have realized that it is too stressful for my wife to , say, wear a skirt at home-both the unrealistic fear of a stranger coming to the door, but just the discomfort she feels with this attire. I truly salute any whose spouses are positive and encourage moderate crossdressing, but I truly suspect that most wives would prefer not to do anything like encouragement. what do others think?