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    At what point does it cross "The Line"?

    So I'm watching a youtube video of an attractive young woman seductively toying with a banana (nothing vulgar, just kissing and such), thinking, "This is really hot!" And then I think, maybe I should make a video like that while dressed as Dana. And then I think, "Whoa, wait a minute. I'm a straight GM who likes to CD. Making a video seductively toying with a banana crosses the line."

    Or does it? I am attracted to watching a woman act seductively. So I think it would be fun to dress as a woman and pretend to do that. The banana thing was really hot (and clean, too).

    What is "the line"?
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    The line is what you feel comfortable doing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by danam View Post
    So I'm watching a youtube video of an attractive young woman seductively toying with a banana (nothing vulgar, just kissing and such), thinking, "This is really hot!" And then I think, maybe I should make a video like that while dressed as Dana. And then I think, "Whoa, wait a minute. I'm a straight GM who likes to CD. Making a video seductively toying with a banana crosses the line."

    Or does it? I am attracted to watching a woman act seductively. So I think it would be fun to dress as a woman and pretend to do that. The banana thing was really hot (and clean, too).

    What is "the line"?
    What was that you tube video address ?
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    There is no line except the one you impose on yourself. Making a video role playing can be fun, harmless, and a way to express your fem side. How far you go with it is up to you.

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    Whatever my wife says it is, I guess. Usually after I stepped over it.

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    The line is wherever you decide to draw it, and it may move over time. Making a video may be a lot of fun. Who doesn't want to be a star (or a video vixen)?

    One loose definition of crossing the line may be any action that knowingly and intentionally causes harm or pain to another person including yourself.

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    The line is bad...

    Stay away from the line(s). Terrible things happen there.
    Go near the edge. Edgy is good. Plus, you'll see more.

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    "Line?" There in no line. We don't have to have a line. We don't need no stinkin' line!
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    The line is crosses when you post a picture or video in Internet and you will probably regret it later. Remember that deleting a picture or video posted in Internet does not mean that it disappeared. Somebody could have downloaded it.

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    Well, if the banana crosses your personal boundary...

    ...you could substitute a taco?

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    Banana

    It depends if you like bananas,if you do there is no line,just live it........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia_Marie View Post
    The line is what you feel comfortable doing.
    I agree with Alicia Marie. Each one of us draw our own line and I think the limit is when you don't feel comfortable doing what you do.

    So...why not play with bananas if we like and enjoy it?
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    I don't think there's really much of a path, or a line, in life. It's more like we're in giant fields where we can wander in any direction aimlessly.

    You're already dressing, which isn't typical hetero-male behavior, so why not just seduce that banana if you want to? It's not a much more advanced scenario.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissConstrued View Post
    Well, if the banana crosses your personal boundary...

    ...you could substitute a taco?
    Wow! You are sassy!

    I also like the comment that curiosity is better than actuality. Very true in so many ways.

    Thank you all for the comments. It is nice to know that it is not that big a deal...given that I already dress up. And it is just a video. I guess the bigger issue now is whether or not to make it public, because getting caught doing something like that would be embarrassing to say the least. Even more so than dressing!

    I tried to get the URL but youtube is really slow now (5PM Central). I found it originally by doing a youtube search on "Girl Eating Banana".
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    The line is wherever you put it

    You don't cross it, you just move it to wherever you're comfortable at any given time.

    BTW, after bananas i hear cucumbers is the next step

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    The line is anything that if someone from your family, work, etc saw it would it get ya in big trouble. Thats the rule I go by. So I do some lingerie pics, then all my silly attention seeking pose pics and clubbing pics and put them on the net. But nothing really close to being X rated.

    Nothing my kids would see and then be horrified by. Plus my lingerie pics on flicker are hidden as adult friend only files.

    If I ever got caught at work and they looked over my pics...nothing there that would get me in any more trouble than just being a CD to begin with.

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    If you make the video and upon watching it, you find the banana is appeeling,
    you have probably crossed the line.

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    hears some food for thought banana banana banana !

    Think of this. The line Is where you draw it BUT , think about the men out there that will mast&@te to your vid. Does the thought bother you or are you fine with men going to there happy place "because" of you. Can you "handel that?

    If your fine with it I see no reason you should not do it.

    Just food for thought. Banana!
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    You might try the whole ice cream cone thing, less phalic but still suggestive.
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    To paraphrase Freud, Sometimes a banana is just a banana.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissConstrued View Post
    Well, if the banana crosses your personal boundary...

    ...you could substitute a taco?
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    That would depend on who's watching the video and weather or not they have already had their daily allotment of fruits and veggies.
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    Quote Originally Posted by danam View Post
    Wow! You are sassy!

    I also like the comment that curiosity is better than actuality. Very true in so many ways.

    I found it originally by doing a youtube search on "Girl Eating Banana".
    Don't know how someone could just out right say that curiosity is better than actuality, unless of course they speak from experience??? I was going to ask why you would you would search "girl eating banana" just out of the blue, but on second thought... whatever works for ya.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Christina W View Post
    hears some food for thought banana banana banana !

    Think of this. The line Is where you draw it BUT , think about the men out there that will mast&@te to your vid. Does the thought bother you or are you fine with men going to there happy place "because" of you. Can you "handel that?

    If your fine with it I see no reason you should not do it.

    Just food for thought. Banana!
    With all the porn available on the internet a guy would have to setting his sights pretty dang low to do that to a vid of a girl eating a banana. Unless he has a fruit fetish... wouldn't you think?
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    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    With all the porn available on the internet a guy would have to setting his sights pretty dang low to do that to a vid of a girl eating a banana. Unless he has a fruit fetish... wouldn't you think?
    You think porn is all they look for ok. I have 5 words fir you. Two girls and a cup! U tube is full if crazy shit and it may not look bad if someone looks on your puter to see what sights your going to. People can look any where to find anything. I just bring that cup vid cuz I heard it is so bad. But there are some people who get off on it and I just want her to know what she might see if she does it that's all.

    Oh don't watch that vid if you have a soft tummy.
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