Hello all
For those who have been following my posts here is an update to my weekend.For all you others a brief synopsis of events.
I came out to my SO last week and all seemed OK.A day and a half passed with no more said so I put on paper what I felt would be some help to resolve this issue.
I posted a portion of this letter and asked for comments.
A number of people responded with various thoughts on my bravery or lack of finesse.
I printed these pages off for my SO and asked if she would care to read them which she did.She was angry and confused that so many people were supportive.We talked for probably 2 hours and now we both have a clearer picture of where I am at.
She cannot understand what I am going through or why I need to dress,she does however concede that it is not just a phase I am going through.
She also feels that maybe given time she will accept what I am but for the time being just raise the subject now and then so we keep communicating.Oh and there is not much chance of intimacy until she figures out how to cope with her feelings for me.
There is so much I would like to share with her but common sense and advice from this site say to wait and live in hope.
I do hope this is not too boring and that some will feel the need to reply.
Huggs
Philipa Jane