So many of us are married. And, many are married to supportive wives who love us dearly. Yet, many are married to wives who love them but still won't or don't accept their crossdressing. I wonder if it's really possible to "love" someone yet still deny them the element that makes them happy or feel complete. ie. "So, if you really loved me, you'd want me to be happy." The double edge? ie. "If you really loved me, you wouldn't expect me to accept this, this, __________ (fill in the blank with your own favorite pejorative) when you know how unhappy it makes me."
I know that compromise is possible, and often the only way out of this conundrum. Yet, the question still remains. Does love mean 'I love you with all your facets!" or does love mean, 'I love you but only when you don't do that."? Has this been discussed to death already? If so, I apologize in advance. I guess we begin to deal in absolutes here; but is love really 'absolute' at that?
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