I was talking to someone on Second Life the other day, a TS woman, and we got into things about passing well. She was saying that a lot of the MTF TS who pass really well never looked like men to begin with. Maybe they just were always small or feminine, and transitioning just took them completely to the female side.
How true would that be? I know they talk about how important it is to start as early as possible but once that time is passed we can't really go back and fix it. Suppose someone does start after their 20's. If they are pretty masculine, would any amount of plastic surgery or HRT etc really fix that?
I know they always talk about passing is attitude, and granted, attitude and confidence do play a large role but on the looks end, well, whether a pretty or ugly woman, one would have to look it to really blend in well.
My day to day look is more feminine, even in my tee and shorts, and often I pass at a glance as I have been called "ma'am" several times but like for me, I doubt it takes much investigation to see "ahh this is male after all".
So the theory that the truely passsable ones never looked like men to begin with, how true would that be in most cases?
And sorry for the depressing subject.