Hi Everyone,
Being a member of this forum causes me to think a lot about my dressing and to ask a lot of questions about it so I can perhaps understand myself better. I suppose the most basic question of all and one which is mentioned in several other threads is why do we dress in clothes of the opposite sex. There are probably as many answers to that question as there are members of this forum. After thinking about it a while, I think there are several reasons why I like to dress in girl's clothes.
1. I like the way women look in their clothes and want to look like them. I am so envious of the way a young woman can walk down the street in either a flowing skirt or tight jeans and look absolutely gorgeous.
2. I like the variety of women's clothes: colors, materials, styles. Men's clothes are boring -- shirts and pants, browns and blues, yuck!!! Women have so many more choices: jeans or capris or shorts, long or short skirts, blouses or tee-tops. The list goes on and on.
3. I like the way women's clothes feel. They seem softer. On the other hand, they sometimes seem more restrictive which I also like. Like the way my bra feels tight around my chest or the way my low-rise jeans cup my bottom and legs.
4. I feel slightly naughty and sexy when I am wearing girl's clothes in public. It's like I have this big secret and no one else knows about it.
5. It sometimes helps me relieve stress. I notice that I dress more completely and more often when I am a little stressed out.
There are two reasons I don't include on my list. First is that I feel like I am a girl. While I admit to some confusion over my sexual identity, I don't feel deep in my heart that I should have been born a girl. There are lots of things about being a guy that I do like. Second is as a way to sexual release. I truly don't dress with the idea of masturbating. I dress because in many ways, I just feel better, more natural, in girl's clothes.
Those are my answers to the question: why do we dress? I would like to hear other members' reactions or reasons.