lol took me ages to figure out what GG was, i refused to ask would have been much more painless if i had lol
lol took me ages to figure out what GG was, i refused to ask would have been much more painless if i had lol
Just to chime in one more time, I do agree with Deedee and Charlene, just get out somewhere and people watch, malls, airports, parks, wherever. Watching girls is fun anyway, you'll see lots of things to emulate and model your own behavior and style on as well as lots of things to avoid.
Hugs...Joni Mari
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Watch the movie "Legally Blonde" and look for "The Move." It says a lot.
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I always wear a corset when I dress, it forces me to sit straight, but it seems every time I dress up, I have good posture. I have had people coment on it. I don't know why I do it, it just kinda happens.
What I learned years before many of you were born! ATTITUDE! CHIN UP, CHEST OUT, SHORTER STEPS WITH ONE FOOT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER, AND ARMS SLIGHTLY SWINGING! That was taught to me by a professional model over 50 years ago. I still practice it all the time. Your attitude is what makes it happen! Think of yourself modeling a pretty dress in front of several thousand people. Then think, CPCOSSAS (see above for explanation). That is the way I was taught to do it, and it does work. My late wife used to say that I walked more like a lady than she did!! We had a professional dancer friend who said the same thing. As my late wife used to say, "If you've got it, flaunt it!" And I did!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
I found this site suggested on one of the boards last spring but haven't had time to fully check it out:
http://udefineu.com/
Love, Ellen
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Hi Janet,
You need to watch the "experts" i.e. genetic girls and practice, practice, practice. For me airports are fabulous but I travel a lot too. Malls, busy city streets etc are all good places to observe feminine deportment (the good, the bad and the ugly).
Michelle
It will come to you in time , Get a full lenght mirror and pratice. All i have to do now is put on a pair of pumps , i feel sexy everything else comes natural .
Good luck
Love Kathy Ann ox ox ox