[SIZE="2"]It’s very hot here in Kansas at the moment, and thunderstorms are on the way. I thought up this thread on a trip to the local Wal-Mart last night. This is not a rant, it’s just a bunch of random things involving crossdressing that bother me or make me uncomfortable (some of you may agree):
1. Petticoat punishment. I hate the idea of making boys wear girl’s clothes for the purposes of punishment, in fact I hate the words “punishment” and “crossdressing” in the same sentence! Dressing up a boy just to make him cry and adjust his behavior towards girls is cruel, IMHO. Even worse is this – if the boy likes being dressed up (or enjoys being punished this way), the real punishment begins…
2. Being labeled a “pervert.” I can think of worse labels, but this is the product of weak minds. In my profession, fine art, perversion is a badge of honor – I guess that makes me a double pervert. I wear my perversions with pride (pun intended)…
3. Men in drag. I mean men who should know better, like J. Edgar Hoover and Rudy Giuliani. Exceptions are Divine, Monty Python (all of them), and Vince Clarke of Erasure.
4. Men who dress up as women, yet retain their maleness. This is not the same as “drag.” I call it having a chip on your shoulder-pad. Can we please leave the males at the door? Thanks…
5. Not being younger. I could have dressed up and passed much easier when I was young, and I could have been absolutely spectacular, like those amazing UK trannies. Nowadays I can only hope to pass as a frumpy librarian…
6. Confusion over definitions. What’s in a word? When I began, I feared the word “transvestite,” preferring “cross-dresser.” But, when I first put on a wig and experimented with lipstick and make-up, I knew I was a transvestite, simple as that. When I came out, I emphatically said “I’m a transvestite,” and I’m very comfy with the word. Definitions are still being debated, even here in our little confined space. I blame regional homophobia for this cloudiness – people should know better.
7. Boys. I see boys walking around in these really wide-legged long shorts, and I get my hopes up – could he actually be wearing a skirt? No, it’s only a pair of shorts, but he’s so close! Also, why is it when a boy wears girl’s clothes (for a laugh), 99 times out of 100 he grabs his chest, sticks out his rear end, and clomps around, well, just like a boy? See “Men in drag” above…
8. Cures. I recently read a book about our precious parallel universe, and I came across a chapter titled “What to do about crossdressing.” I started to read it, but when I came to the part about wearing diving suits and putting plastic bags over my head, I slowed down a bit. However, when I came upon the word “Prozac,” I put the book away…
What to do about crossdressing? I don’t know – how about ENJOY IT?!!!!!! Just a thought…
Non-rant over. I feel better now – I’m indoors where it’s cool and feminine…
So, what bothers you about crossdressing?
Sincerely, Freddy[/SIZE]