What is the purpose of this forum if we can't be honest about ourselves?
I must confess that I'm at a total loss to understand why some people feel a need to fabricate stories about themselves. To me, the primary value of this forum is that it gives us an opportunity to share a bit about ourselves, and to read the trials, tribulations, and adventures of other people like us.
Aren't we losing this by creating a fictitious image of ourselves?
What good does it serve to get congratulations for something never accomplished?
What good does it do to elicit emotions from other members, sometimes even provoking heartache and tears, for something that never happened?
Is there pride to be found in boasting of falsehoods?
I don't know about the other members here, but I have been hesitant about sharing details about myself, because I'm afraid that it may sound like just another possible story. This is a shame. I wonder how many true life experiences we are missing because other members feel the same way.
The timing of this thread has been provoked by a specific thread created in the recent past, but it is something that has been on my mind for some time now.
If any of you are wondering whether I'm referring to you -- then good! That means you may be feeling guilty. Up until the past few months, I usually accepted people's stories as fact, my opinion only to be altered by irrefutable evidence. Now, unfortunately, I read every post, excepting for those members I'm very familiar with, with a skeptical eye.
I don't expect things to change because of this post. I just felt a need to vent.