a few days ago, i was talking to one of my girlfriends, and i told her everything. how i dressed this summer at school, why i do it...etc. it felt sooo great to get it out and finally have someone that i trust to talk to about it. she didnt judge me. she only encouraged me. my reccomendation to all of you is if you have not talked to a friend, then do it. it feels great. you may be embarrassed at first, but i feel like that is only natural.