The dam may be burtsing. A couple nights ago, in bed, my wife finally asked why I like to wear bras, panties, and pantyhose. It lead to the first opening discussion of my need for dressing. She asked the usual questions (gay?, change to a woman? etc) It was an emotional but good conversation. She didn't seem too freaked out. It ended with me telling her I had some things for her to read (downloaded from this and other sites).
Tonight will be the first time we have had a chance to talk since then. I am bracing my self to tell her "the rest of the story", about the full extent of my dressing. I have listened to a lot of your advice, so I am hoping it goes as well. Wish us well.
Jaydee
I am so happy. She didn't scream, run out of the room or call me a pervert. During our discussion, she accepted that it was "hardwired". She said that she is still trying to get her head around it, but is trying. At this point I will accept that as a victory. She still hasn't asked some expected questions or asked to see my stash, but I expect that will come soon. At least know the closet door is open. Now I think we will work on boundaries, and I will do my best to keep the pink fog at bay.
