Im not sure if that is really the correct term for it. It is just something I have noticed the more I am out and about. People just dont seem to care or dont even stare. I dont notice any long looks or extra eye contact, snickers etc. It is almost a surreal experience. Was thinking about that the last time I went shopping at the mall. I just was wearing a pair of jeans, one of my favorite tops and some low heels. Decided to push myself walking from Macys all the way throught the mall to JC Penneys. Reminded myself to walk tall with shoulders back, and not so fast. It gave me a lot of time to people watch, and as I did realized people werent watching me. Im not kidding myself that Im passible, but wondering if I just fell into the category of "Womanlike" so nobody really cared. The same thing when I forced myself to walk into stores, SA's would approach me to see if I needed help. Was maamed several times. Went to check a balance at JC Penneys and the clerk didnt bat an eye. It is a weird experience for the psyche-part of me wants to say hey look at me, and the other larger part wants to blend in. Also a part of me worries how I will handle it when someone makes a negative comment. What will I do then, will I curl up in a ball or will I just keep pushing on. Maybe next time I will find myself a bench in the mall or a spot at the foodcourt, bring a book and see how people react when im still and not moving. Have any of you ladies done things like that as a social experiment. I work in the psych field so people always intrigue me- the way they interact, act, react, etc. I also think I read others especially strangers fairly well.