but I want to work on it. I have thought about maybe my wife and I meeting up with others (as a man at first) in the Austin TX area, and try to get a little more comfortable with the whole thing. I have been dressing, in some manor or other, in secret for at least 16 years. I told my wife last year, and she is ok with it.
We went to 6th st in Austin last Halloween, and I had mixed emotions. I went as a naughty schoolgirl, and she went as a sexy nun with a ruler, in case I got out of line. I got a few looks, good or bad I'm not sure. We sat and talked for a while at an outdoor bar, talked with some of the girls around us, and left after about an hour. I was sooooo nervous, and it was Haloween, for Pete's sake. So, I am not sure if I can go out dressed again or not.
I am not very passable. 6ft - 180lbs, big hands, hairy arms (which I will not shave), facial hair stubble that I CAN'T SEEM TO COVER, no mater how close I shave against the grain.
I guess I am in a bad position for someone that doesn't like being laughed at.
Any advice is welcome. Just don't laugh at me. LOL