experiment in it a few times got to admit it was exciting
experiment in it a few times got to admit it was exciting
Not any more, I though I was, actually tried it out, it wasn't for me
oh I could tell some stories of my crazy wife and I....
Jenn
I fantasize about being the damsel in distress, all breathless and tightly bound. I'm more attracted to the idea of cleavage, rope and heels than leather, latex and chains. But the idea of restraint and CDing for me are like a Reeses peanut butter cup. Two great fetishes that go great together!
God gave women intuition and femininity. Used properly, the combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I've ever met. Farrah Fawcett
Haven't tried actual bondage, although the latex corsets and boots look so hot I think about as close to this as we get is role reversal. Little vanilla cross dresser, eh?
Ok, I read most of it and I think the conclusion is overwhelming:
We, in general, enjoy the feeling of being constrained in some way. I guess that's the way it has to be, no? After all, stockings are constraining, as are very high heels, as are bras, gaffs, and the ultimate: corsets!!!
What we do when thus constrained....well that's a matter of personal taste
tina
Mmmmmm corsets how do I love their tight dreamy hug.
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Skye
So I debated on posting this as I think this may be unique to myself and maybe a few others (maybe more, I dont know) and I know there are girls out there who will disagree but I'll just play the "IMHO" card as my disclaimer. As mentioned, there seems to be alot of interest in BDSM from posters here and I would guess most likely the CD community as a whole. Here is why I think that is, without going to deep into it, in short BDSM in almost every fashion involves one thing....vunerability. The submissive gets thier thrill from making thierself vunerabile to thier Domme and the Domme gets thier thrill from exploiting and playing on that vunerability. CDing is much the same in the sense that you are putting yourself out there and letting your guard down and in some situations (Forced Femme/Sissy Slave/French Maid) when you actually combine the two it can heighten the experience for some people and make for a truly remarkable time. Even though I have fantasized about dressing for most of my life, BDSM was almost like a gateway to CDing for me. Years of exploring taboos, breaking down barriers (in my own head) and many experiences in the wonderful world of female domination have led me to where I am now....unfortunately, I dont know exactly where that is. LOL But I do know this, for me at least, BDSM can be really fun when done right and it doesnt always have to be about being tied down and spanked with a paddle, although I highly recommend haha, just like CDing, if you enjoy it and it's within reason...why not?
Rant Off: Lol, kinda got lost with what I was sayin there so I guess my point is...BDSM = Fun, CD = Fun....BDSM + CD = FUN!!!! :P
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No way.
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i could never trust someone that much.
no bondage for me.
no s&m for me.
i love soft silk and lace. pretty in pink for me.
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Because of my personality (and my addiction to stiletto heel boots and leather) I have sometimes played the dominatrix, with "forced" (Yeah, right. They were begging for it.) feminization, etc. I found it a little boring, but my "slaves" said it was liberating.
I draw the line at sex acts, however. In my very limited experience as a part-time amateur dominatrix, the people who play these games with me are too vulnerable for me to ethically take the situation as far as they might like it to go.
I think that some genetic men ache to be able to express their femininity. Their understanding of society's taboos makes it impossible for them to do so unless it is "forced" upon them. The one word that I have heard a lot is that it is "liberating."
I still have the 5" heel pumps with padlocked ankle straps. I threw away the whip because I kept hitting myself in the face with it.
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I like the idea of BSDM and several of my fantasies are based there. I have liked bondage almost as long as I remember crossdressing. However, I don’t practice it that often. Sometimes the fantasy just works better than the reality.
I also find things like corsets, tight cresses, ballet boots very sensual and exciting.
Les bondage and forced orgasm videos are probably my favorite, but I haven’t looked at porn all that much since I’ve been out to my wife and have had more freedom to dress. Even forced fem excited me at one time, but no longer since telling my wife. I am sure there is some psycho analytical reason for this, but that’s for another thread.
- AF
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