"Feminine" it's a word that is used on this forum all the time. Do we all have different interpretations of it or is there a general consensus amongst the girls on here as to what it means?
I can't help suspecting that we all veiw what is "feminine" in our own individual ways?
I tried to post an answer on Emmi's thread "How Feminine are You" the other day and I really couldn't answer it. This has made me think what is my definition of "Feminine"?
The answer for me is .............a freedom of expression. I once read a post on another forum that really rang true to me, I can't remember who said it but she said "A man has to be a man but a woman can be herself", I really do identify with those words.
If a woman puts on a work shirt, jeans and a pair of rigger boots picks up a chain saw goes into the woods and cuts down a few trees, then people veiw this as ok, she is just expressing herself, doing what she wants to do.
On the other side of the coin, if a man was to put on a dress, high heels, make up and join a sewing class, then people would veiw this as somewhat strange beahviour, simply not a done thing.
Also expressing feelings and emotions, a woman cries at a sad film, thats ok, she is just showing her feeelings in a phyisical way, a guy cries at a sad film, Oh dear he must be some kinda "wuss".
So I would say the defiinition of the word "feminine" to me is the freedom to express my feelings, by wearing the clothes, make up, hair and everything else that goes with it I am just expressing how I feel, and if I feel like crying when watching a sad film, I do it.
Thats just my veiw of the word, like I said I suspect everyone has their own individual veiws of what it means.
love mand xxx