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[xTwo_Of_Heartsx]

I'm a drag queen..
It confuses the hell out of most people.. but it's only confusing if people let it be. It really isn't that difficult to understand, I don't think..
I'm a mostly gay male.. I don't identify as female at all.. I just like to dress up and perform. Lots of gay guys do this.. it's kind of part of the culture.. and I'm all about the culture..
I enjoy performing, and I like makeup.. I just don't wear it much when presenting as male, because I like to pass when I can.. lol
But I just see drag as playing a character.. it has nothing to do with my gender identity.. it's just a fun hobby.

I never used to get turned on by being in women's clothing.. but now I think I kind of do.
I'm a little embarrassed to admit it.. but when I'm in drag, and wearing pretty little underthings and all that.. and I look in the mirror, I actually get aroused.. perhaps because I don't see that as me.. I just see this hot girl with huge breasts in the mirror.. and I'm like whoaaa she's hot..
But then.. I realize it's me.. and I give my head a shake. lol
I think it's a combination of the appearance and feel of the clothing.

I know all this might sound strange, but this is just the way I am, and we all know gender isn't binary. No one fits a stereotype perfectly. There are many facets of me, and I'm fine with that.. I just know alot of people judge.

[gemsay32]

Agreed completely, Ze.

One's personal fetishes, kinks, sexual behaviours and preferred partners are mostly unrelated to gender identity.

i.e. A strict post-op Transman can be completely hetero and completely vanilla, OR he can be completely bi and into every kink known to mankind, OR somewhere in between liking to bottom to a very dominant Domme while topping a gentleman fop. There are as infinite variables regardless of gender identity and biological function.

At least those are my thoughts on the matter.

Wait!? Are you admitting that we live in the matrix and that all the world is a giant computer meant to be programmed?

[mylilsecret8]

I'm a drag queen..
It confuses the hell out of most people.. but it's only confusing if people let it be. It really isn't that difficult to understand, I don't think..
I'm a mostly gay male.. I don't identify as female at all.. I just like to dress up and perform. Lots of gay guys do this.. it's kind of part of the culture.. and I'm all about the culture..

By the way, I'm a MTF and first of all just want to say you Transmen are sooooo awesome, you big handsome studs you!!

I definately understand what you are saying. You identify as a gay male. Lot's of gay males like to dress femme, and you are like a lot of gay males.

There is something very sexy and interesting to me about others who transition, and I guess I like the little mix of gender. Whether it is a Transman who is dressed masculine or a MTF who is dressed pretty.

Most of the time when I am dressed femme I'll be femme from head to toe, but sometimes just for a kick I'll wear mens boxers under my dress instead of lacy pink panties. Don't get me wrong...I am the ultimate panty boy and have a fetish for pretty panties, but just something intriguing about mixing gender clothing I guess.

[DanteDonovan]

I would be a prime person to ask about stuff since I am FTM, yet wear eyeliner, shadow, put on wigs, and go out.

I don't wear girl clothes, but I do got style. Plus am gay. Some of my friends online had a moment of confusion on me coming out as this. I knew they saw it as a girl who believes she's a guy. Ok, we got that. But...then she says she's transgender, is male, but wears makeup and wigs, and drools over guys. WTF...why not just stay a girl? Oo

I completely understand their thoughts, but I honestly feel no connection to my female body. I loathe it. Ever since I was young, I always wore the pants. Wore the boots. Hung with more guys than girls. Was always "one of the guys".

I think, for me, a big part has to do with my love of art and anything I can color and design, I'm all over it. I love fashion and makeup. Have always been attracted to the more effeminate men, as well as the ones that might have the eyeliner. Color, variety, and outgoing natures like that grab me.

I also think it really is just part of my body and mind. I am very androgynous. My body is perfect that if I dress down and don't wear any makeup and don't do anything to my hair, I get some people thinking I'm a guy. I dress up, makeup and wigs, and I look 100% female.

For how my physical body is, my mentality (even took quite a few of valid gender tests) I always am balancing damn near in the middle. Just, in the end, I am more male than female.

So, yeah, that's why I do what I do. No traumatic childhood or past. No mixed emotions and misunderstandings of who I am. I have no idea if this contributed in a helpful way to this. I just wanted to try and give you one of the views of someone who does this ^^

[Myojine]

That it’s relatively common for transmen to transition from [hate this] “female” to male and then once they are happy they pass as men…to crossdress to female…

What the F***?

I knew they saw it as a girl who believes she's a guy. Ok, we got that. But...then she says she's transgender, is male, but wears makeup and wigs, and drools over guys. WTF...why not just stay a girl? Oo

I completely understand their thoughts, but I honestly feel no connection to my female body. I loathe it. Ever since I was young, I always wore the pants. Wore the boots. Hung with more guys than girls. Was always "one of the guys".

This me except the opposite gender.
People fail to understand that im MtF, wanna wear skirts and and a bikini(actually like onepieces realy alot better),
yet still goes gaga over girls in their panties(dont hate on the panties yo or a girl in a great bikini, or why i have so much anime "ecchi" pr0n(ecchis sorta like softcore, but its anime girls in panties and bras, not actually naked but partially clothed suggestive and/or sexual poses).
they ask
WHY NOT JUST STAY A FREAKIN DUDE?!

[zetsuboubilly]

If I passed as a guy even in drag, I would be thrilled out of my mind. I'm not the most macho guy ever - I like tight clothes and eyeliner - and I'd crossdress just for fun if I didn't pass as a girl so well.

[Vickie_CDTV]

As a M2F TV, I have to admit I find this rather fascinating. Dominic, those feelings you describe sound very similar to what some genetic male M2F crossdressers feel when they are dressed in womens' clothes. It makes me wonder, if you don't mind me asking, did those feelings you feel when dressed in womens' clothes start after you started taking testosterone?

[Abraxas]

If I passed as a guy even in drag, I would be thrilled out of my mind. I'm not the most macho guy ever - I like tight clothes and eyeliner - and I'd crossdress just for fun if I didn't pass as a girl so well.

Hey there, new person!


I'm in agreement with ya there-- I'm definitely into the Bowie look, and if I thought I passed well enough as male in drag, I'd totally crossdress. Last time I tried that I looked like a girl. But it's been five years. Maybe it'll work now.

By the way, why don't you wander over to the new members section and post an intro

[barbecue7]

I think its kinda hot for an ftm guy to dress in drag, I know of several who do that on occassion and go out to the bars, etc..

[Nicole Erin]

I guess some people truely do not like any kind of gender boundry.

I don't know much detail on this one but I have heard of TS who transition back and forth a few times. Don't know how, I mean once the male organs are gone, they are GONE. And for the GG's who have chest surgery, I don't think there would be any hope of them growing back even if said GG underwent HRT. I mean if you could just re-grow breasts, a lot of breast cancer survivors would be REAL happy.

[AnonyMouse]

It's very simple for me.

Dressing up as a girl for a day or just a few hours, when I want to, and going out with people who understand that that's not "me" is fun.

On the other hand, looking like a girl day in and day out, being referred to by female pronouns day in and day out, expected to do things that girls are expected to do socially, and all that, is traumatic.

I guess I feel the same way about it as I do about physical contact. If I say it's okay first and you don't expect me to keep doing it whenever you get the urge, it's great. Otherwise, NO. Keep your rape-hugs to yourself.