Hi Chanicle, first of all, welcome!
I have addressed this exact issue in other posts on the forum a few times, because it is something that often comes up with us boys. We often have more "feminine" traits because we are raised and socialised female in line with our birth sex (not gender). I guess it depends on how comfortable you are with having those characteristics (and it sounds like you are comfortable with it, but just kind of trying to reconcile it with your gender, which is perfectly normal given how heavily society pushes the gender binary). Some guys work hard to eradicate anything that could be seen as more feminine, others are okay with it (and let's face it, not every man is uber macho, right?
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Question, how long have you been transitioning? I ask because the further you get into your transition, the more you will find that your gender identity will solidify - what you are describing sounds very much to me like what I went through when I first came out as being "not a girl". I knew I wasn't female, but didn't know exactly where I sat - but the more I explored that, the more I slid towards fully male, and I realised that a lot of the more "feminine" aspects of my personality that people would call me out on are not actually "feminine" characteristics, but "human" ones and this helped me enormously in establishing and solidifying my identity
I just wrote a long post in response to one of NiCo's threads about labels which kind of addresses the gender binary expectations - I think when we come out and transition, there is almost a period of...grieving I guess, or of wondering how the hell we fit in and how do we make all these parts of us work with our identity. I can assure you though that these things DO work themselves out as you explore your identity more and work out where you are comfortable, and if you ID as male, having the more "feminine" aspects doesn't make you any less so
But it is also possible to be bigendered - only you can really know where you sit though
ETA:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...80#post1864480