In order to not hijack an existing thread, I wanted to move it to a new one. I saw these two comments in a previous thread:
I have seen this get mentioned in many threads, but it never has been a complete discussion of its own (unless I missed it). A few thoughts I have on the matter.
First, I think there are people who can quit. Why do I think this? Because it is vain to think that because some of us can't quit that there isn't a person around that can.
To Jamie's point. Will suppressing crossdressing cause emotional problems? Well it is obvious from reading this board that this is true for some. But again, does the fact that something affects so many mean that it affects all? Why can't someone dress because it is an interesting challenge and then all of a sudden decide golf pleases them more?
I would like to add that we do see a lot of people who say they are stopping and then they are back here saying they made a mistake. It is easier to remember them than to remember the ones that say they are stopping and we never hear from them again. And someone can certainly quit by not even announcing it. For those that post here and quit, I would think this would be the more common approach.
Finally, I would like to point to the threads where everyone is asked what their longest time is without dressing. There are some with 2 or more decades of it being completely dormant. Something woke it back up in them, but why is it not imagineable that there are some that it never gets woke back up in and they are living healthy lives?
This is one of those subjects that I feel we don't always do the fair thing of assuming that there are all types out there. Cautioning someone about purging when they want to quit is a very prudent thing. But when the person gets overwhelmed with comments that they will be back and bad mental health will be a contributer, are we doing them justice?