I would be interested know how many girls on this site have gone to outsiders to get an opinion.
When my wife and I first started fighting over whether my need to wear female underwear was selfish indulgence or a deep-down compulsion I wrote to a national columnist here in the UK.
I did not tell my wife - but the instant she read the published response - she knew who the author of the query was!
I suppose I should be flattered that she recognised me, but more seriously, the article was very level-headed and, I thought, fair.
My wife and I are still fighting in principle, but in practice I am back to dressing in secret. It cannot last, and eventually one of us will be forced to make a crucial decision.
Here is the article that was printed.
See what you think ...
http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandsty...drelationships
If you cannot open the link it could possibly be due to copyright restrictions.
If it is of interest and you want to read it but can't I'd be happy to send it as an attachment to an email.