I'd like to hope no one likes jerks! I personally do my best to try to be nice to others. It has nothing to do with being a gentleman; it has everything to do with wanting to be a good person for me. Admittedly, there are bad days where I'm rude and irritable, but I'd like to think I'm not a mean spirited jerk. I'd like to break the stereotype that nerdy guys all have mommy and closet (not the gay type!) issues.