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    Does your SO prefer you as Female? For everyone to answer

    Hello girls:

    I have a question for the SOs on this site - how many of you actually perfer your male being dressed as a female? If possible, would you perfer to keep him in feminine attire 24/7? Just clothing or all the way with full makeup, wig, etc?

    ( For everyone to answer)

    Stef
    Last edited by Di; 09-21-2009 at 08:48 AM.

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    She don't care how i'm dressed. Wether I'm full out dressed, hald and half, or total drab. it's all coll with my SO.
    And yes, i do know how lucky I am to have an SO that's so cool with everything

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    Smile MY Wife

    She prefers for me to the man she married but she still recognizes Jeannie for who she is. I am ok with being in both worlds and we are happy where we are. Would I go 24/7 if I could? My heart says yes but my mind says no, but it would be so much fun if I could..



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    She despises the woman in me.

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    [SIZE="3"]As an actual SO here, I prefer my partner to be happy. Everything else is moot.

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    does my wife prefer?

    she dont want me dressing up as a female but dont want me male either, she wants to be the boss of the house and of me. whats hurts so much is the fact that I love her so much and wont let on that she cares at all-michille
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    My wife wouldn't want me dressing all the time,she does help me with buying clothes and makeup and she understands why i need to dress as Nikki,but most of the time when i dress i'm usually alone,but she always asks if i enjoyed myself.So it does feel so good to be accepted for who i am.

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    Well I have to agree with DD on this one, so long as my partner is happy I really don't care what She/He wears or how often they wear it

    [SIZE="3"]Like DD I am an actual SO[/SIZE]
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    My wife also wants me to be happy, but I asked her what she thought for this thread her preference is... me as a male or female. Without any hesitation she said... I prefer you dressed, behaving and looking like a woman!

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    Sheila [as she has said] just wants me to be happy

    That fact that quite often i'm happier as "Debs" isn't a problem for her

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    I prefer mine to be male..that's how I am most comfortable.
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    As a girl

    My wife would love foe me to be femme all the time, I work from home and can be dressed most of the time. I spend about 75% of the time as a female. I only dress as as a male when my children are with us,(from 1st marraige). I meet my cureent as a woman and she likes me femme, I do too!!!

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    Mine prefers me as a male. She wanted to be with a man, not a woman.

    Now, she doesn't mind me dressing... but she doesn't want me to be a woman.

    Sometimes it makes me wish I told my ex while we were together.. I told her recently, and she loves it. She would've helped me transition and all that stuff.. Hindsight is 20/20, eh?

    Oh well, I'm madly in love with my fiancee.. and I can be happy as a boy that dresses as a girl sometimes.

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    My SO is very understanding, and supportive but she prefres me in male mode when we're together. She has gotten used to my wearing panties 24/7 but that,s all she desires. She is very helpful and will offer advice whenever I ask. She has also seen pictures of Jill but does not want to know Jill in person.
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    My wife would agree with Sheila, and DD, as long as I 'm not in a blue funk, she seems to be happy with whatever I'm wearing, from all guy, 1/2 & 1/2, or all girl. If I start to act moody, she will tell be to go put on something, and take some time to myself, I come back with a skirt and a smile, and all is good in our world!
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    I asked my wife what her answer to this would be. She said it was simple...due to the area we live in, (redneck/back woods central) I can't dress fully everyday but, "As long as our nails match, (toes) your legs are smooth and you panties are cute, then I'm not too concerned about the rest" I LOVE her so much!!!!! Kaitlin
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    S O here Whatever makes my partner HAPPY!!
    24/7 or a few days a week whatever circumstances permit or they want or need.I always see the girl no matter how they are dressed.
    As far as my preference-female
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    Quote Originally Posted by stefcd1 View Post
    Hello girls:

    I have a question for the SOs on this site - how many of you actually perfer your male being dressed as a female? If possible, would you perfer to keep him in feminine attire 24/7? Just clothing or all the way with full makeup, wig, etc?

    ( For everyone to answer)

    Stef
    While this is more of a fantasy for ourselves, I have yet to date a SO who prefer their man to be their woman. Even within this forum, I think most of the SO deep down want the man in us and it is out of pure love that they accept the female.
    Last edited by Di; 09-21-2009 at 08:58 AM. Reason: IF MAYBE YOU WOULD READ IT SAYS everyone to answer

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    no girl mode for me

    My wife absolutely positively without a doubt does not approve of my dressing. She never wants to see me again in girl clothes......

    Since I joined this forum I am realizing the are many lucky men out there whose wives, SO's and family accept their harmless fun.

    I have also been shopping recently with her and saw matching dresses on the clearence rack for pennies on the dollar. I joked we could have matching outfits and got the "LOOK".

    We all make our beds I guess, but I wish she supported my dressing, even just a little.

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    Nigella is ts so I guess that answers the question as she dresses 24/7 I'm happy just the way she is and the way she dresses.


    Quote Originally Posted by UASIANGAL
    Even within this forum, I think most of the SO deep down want the man in us
    I don't and my SO knows this. I much prefer the female, she's more easy going and a much nicer person.
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    I'll have to speak for her on this one. There ain't no way in hell she prefers me as a woman. No way.

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    I asked my partner and she said she mostly prefers to see me as male although she did add when she wants a serious conversation she prefers me as a woman

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    Lately I really do prefer him more in femme mode because I'm in this kind of fascination with it all mode. Plus he's so much happier when he dresses and has a great wardrode...and maybe because I know it's always in the front of his mind so I'd rather just have her out there. But this is weird....I think he's a little jealous of herself! Crazy....

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    I think my one of my wifes fantasys is changing me from man to woman by not being dressed full time.

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    My wife is understanding, but she definitely prefers my male presentation. She'd like it to go away really, while at the same time she knows and accepts that it's a life-long journey.

    She's helpful and will offer advice if I ask, and we've been out together (in safe places) on occasion. I dress fully once a month or less, but around the house I'm generally in non-male shorts all Summer long, with never a second look.
    Last edited by Taylor186; 09-21-2009 at 10:46 AM.

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