Some much needed time...

[Katie Layne]

Hello all. This is my first thread and I just wanted to say how much I appreciate this site and all of you. I've been cding since I can remember. Use to dress up my stuffed animals and play mommy when I was just a tike. It's always been easy for me to accpt, but the fear of others reactions has been a heavy burdon for me.
Anywho, my wife knows of my cding and was just fine with it prior to our marriage. She even went out with me a couple of times as Katie. Since our marriage and then the birth of our son, she has grown extrememly uncomfortable with my desires - though I believe it is more her own feelings of inadequacy since the loss of any and all sexual desire on her part as well as a full emotional withdraw since her father passed when our son was about 3 months old.
So now I only dress up when she is away, though I pretty much wear panties full time. So nice and tight and soft and sexy... I love panties on my skin.
But that is another story entirely, though related. She is going back home with our son for two weeks... I will miss them dearly, but holy sweetness do I need to get out and let Katie free!
That's all... I just had to share my excitment and anticipation with someone.

[sherri52]

Hi Katie and welcome to the site. Relax with your wife, sometimes the loss of a loved one brings turmoil into the lives of those around you. She will come back around and hopefully the cd'ing won't be a problem

[TNRobin]

So how old is your son? Maybe she's just not comfortable now that a kid is involved.

[Katie Layne]

Our son is three now. She agrees the cding is not the issue, but states that it doesn't help. Which is certainly understandable. I haven't brought the issue up in many months, but I think it's time for another chat. Probably this time next month.

[Nicole Brown]

Hi Katie,

Different SOs react differently to our need and desire to dress. Some are very supportive and accepting and some are not. A marriage with young children requires a lot of time and understanding to succeed, and our needs and desires can put a serous strain on the relationship. Take things slow and give your wife plenty of time and space.

Appreciate your girl time when your family goes home for a visit. Live it up to the most and get all that you can get out of it. I fully understand your excitement as I too will have a week of girl time in about 2 weeks. I plan on living as Nicole full time for the entire week and have scheduled 2 makeovers and a professional photo shoot. These are dreams that I have wanted to do for a long time. Take advantage of your time and plan on doing a few things that you have never done before. Enjoy..

Nicole