Debs is going out Tuesday

[Sheila]

announcing this so she knows we are doing it ............ we have talked and talked this through so many times ..... we even went and bought her a new wig yesterday that will enable her to blend in better than her blonde one and as she said we were going to do a daylight shopping trip at one of our localish big towns this coming week .. ...Tuesday has been agreed on as "THE DAY"

She says's agreed is a bit harsh, decided would be a better word ............ just limiting her availability to come up with seven hundred excuses as to why not too.... and she is sat here laughing as I am typing this She will do good and I will look after her I promise

[PaulaJaneThomas]

Excuses? Apart from being brown bread, are there any valid excuses? One big mistake that nervous trannies often make is pulling their wig down too far, which looks odd and is more likely to attract attention. Make sure the wig is fitted on the natural hairline. That blonde wig doesn't do her any favours IMHO so I'm glad she's now got something more suitable.

[Sheila]

Excuses? Apart from being brown bread, are there any valid excuses? One big mistake that nervous trannies often make is pulling their wig down too far, which looks odd and is more likely to attract attention. Make sure the wig is fitted on the natural hairline. That blonde wig doesn't do her any favours IMHO so I'm glad she's now got something more suitable.

Thanks Paula, we appreciate all and any advice

[Samantha B L]

Hi Sheila, I can't imagine Debs without her Jayne Mansfeild blonde hair but then it doesn't hurt to try new things. The two of you may as well go ahead and do it. You only live once. Debs doesn't seem to mind being cajoled into going from the way it sounds. So then I'll send my best wishes that the new styles wil be out in the stores and that they'll all be on sale and in Debs' size.

[TGMarla]

Take care of her, Sheila! You know how fragile she is! This could be a really great day for both of you.

Strong drink may help.

[Sheila]

Take care of her, Sheila! You know how fragile she is!
Strong drink may help.

I will take very good care of her hun, she is very precious to me .......... and Dang can't drink I am driving

[Rachel Morley]

Well done Shelia! You sound just like my wife Marla was to me when I first started going out. I was timid and I chickened-out a lot. I really needed my wife to be firm with me and push me ... and thankfully she was/is. I'd say I didn't want to go but deep down inside I did want to go but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. I obviously still had "issues" about myself and my dressing and the possibility of being read. The moment my wife took over and made all the decisions about how and when I dressed things changed for the better. I trusted in her. I trusted that she knew what was best for me and she was pushing me to help me, which of course she was. In the beginning when we (as Cders) first start to venture out into the big wide world dressed, IMHO to have a confident and assertive SO by your side is a God send. Debs - go with the flow, trust in Sheila, she is your security, she's just helping you get through that sticky patch of self doubt. You'll love her even more (if that's possible) when you get through this to the other side where you'll be dressing and going out with confidence as if you've been doing it all your life! If confidence was money, .... in the words of Del Boy, this time next year you'll be a millionaire!

[Senneca]

I can only agree with everything everyone has said here. Just do it, and you won't regret it one little bit, except maybe that you didn't do it sooner!

[Sandra]

Debs you've done this before and did fine and this time will be no different. Trust in Sheila and you'll be fine.

Of course if you did use one of the many excuses, which you wont and not go then just think of all the skirts, dresses etc that you will not get

[Christine Rugby]

Yay!!! Excitement and nerves!!!! This is what life is about! Keep positive and enjoy! This is fabulous!

Go party and have one drink even though you can't have many!

[Tina B.]

I will take very good care of her hun, she is very precious to me .......... and Dang can't drink I am driving

Sheila, I think the drink is for Debs to calm her down! But maybe a stop at Victoria's Secret looking for something for the honeymoon might work better!
I hope you both just relax and have fun.
Tina

[Sherlyn]

Have fun you 2...that's my advice ..curious about the new wig tho ...long ..short ...colour ?

[KrazyKat]

Sounds like a wonderful DAY, Sheila and Debs!!

I do remember our first time out together, Karen and I, like it was yesterday!!!
And the first time Karen used the ladies bathroom out dressed, it was a revelation for Karen!!How snipy waittress' can be in the bathroom!!

Good job of nudging, Sheila!! BE a brave young lady, DEbs!!

[Rachaelb64]

Well done Sheila I'm sure Debs will enjoy herself.......and I'm sure if she doesn't you'll make her enjoy herself

[Deedee Dupree]

Hi Sheila & Deb's... Just offering my very best wishes for a fun outing. You know I laughed when I read about the 700 excuses not to... fortunately with Sheila, resistance is futile

....and to be fair Deb's, if you ever run out of excuses and need some assistance in that department I'll be happy to oblige...

Have fun, dd

P.S. I am also curious about the new wig. Although I like the blonde wigs, the new one may make the proceedings outside go a bit "smoother"

[sherri52]

It's official now Shiela, she has to go out. Good for you Debs

[Deborah Jane]

WOW!!!!
Thanks for all the encouragement
In 24 hours time i'll be doing this and although I have been out in the past as Sandra says, since then I lost my nerve big time after a bad experiance
This time is a lot more nerve racking in many ways than my previous trips as we'll be in a town fairly local to me......At the moment i'm feeling a combination of pure excitement and sheer terror

announcing this so she knows we are doing it ............ just limiting her availability to come up with seven hundred excuses as to why not too....

Excuse 701....There is an alien invasion planned for Tuesday, do you think me being out "dressed" is a wise idea?

curious about the new wig tho ...long ..short ...colour ?

P.S. I am also curious about the new wig.

Thanks for the interest....I've put a pic in my avvie, although at the moment it still needs a bit more time to settle better [Excuse 702 ]

[unfortunately the colour and style are somewhat lost because of camera flash in the pics]

[Sheila]

Excuse 701....There is an alien invasion planned for Tuesday, do you think me being out "dressed" is a wise idea?

Wiser than coming up with more ridiculous excuses

[PaulaJaneThomas]

The new wig looks orders of magnitude better than the blonde one Debs.

[Daintre]

Good luck Debs, I hope your time out is memorable in a good way. When we take a hit, it can be stressful getting back up and going out dressed again. You have a great partner in Sheila Debs, one who cares for you and will keep you safe....enjoy.

[Barbara B]

Good luck Deb's, enjoy your day. I might me around tomorrow if you need any more support, I'll let the pair of you know later.

[PheonaP]

Deborah Jane said "since then I lost my nerve big time after a bad experiance".

This can, and does happen to many of us in various aspects of our lives, whether in guy or girl mode. However, the GOOD experiences hopefully outweigh the bad experiences.

You are strong Debs and with Sheila you are a giant killer.
Come Tuesday, get up, do the biz and get out there, have a whale of a time.
When you return:
Deborah Jane said "pure excitement and sheer terror".
I would like to think your outlook will be the first option.

Have a great day, both of you, thinking of you.

[Shelly Preston]

I hope you both have a great day tomorrow

[Sheila]

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She will wear this with either her denim jacket or leather jacket ......... I know I can here you some of you say , but she is comfortable dressed like this and if she is comfortable then that is one less worry for her .. she will do good and I will be there to help ............. we are also planning on calling in to see someone else for them to give her some advice and we will take a change of Fem clothes (jeans)in case she is way to nervous about it in the end

EDited to add ................ and I think she looks great

[SexyNatalie]

Debs looks lovely, have fun u 2