Maybe it is because I took time away from this section and now for some reason I'm back, but I have noticed something. Why is it that when confronted by (SO's, parents) most people make up an excuse? Like one post where they poster was asked "do you enjoy wearing women's clothes" they answered, "just playing around". Not a good answer and very transparent for sure. Is telling a lie or half truth better than just saying what it is? Do you feel that you get away with something, the weight lifted and you can go on with life and no cares?
Some of the replies here actually support these types of lies. Carry a bag? Tell your friends it is a "tote". Get caught with nail polish? "My (wife, sister, daughter, alien abductor) made me do it".
When you do this you have to remember two things; what you said and what you didn't say.
I have to admit I am a fan of omission. If it doesn't come up, don't bring it up if you don't want that person to know. But I don't understand the see through lies that some people throw out?
So tell me why?