A year ago I renewed my drivers license. I was going through a very fem phase at the time. I was spending a lot of time out and about enfemme, and was always concerned about being stopped by the police and presenting a male-looking DL while dressed fem. At the time I was excited about the prospect of having at least an androgenous photo on my DL. I had lost a lot of weight and was pathetically skinny for a guy, but that certainly added to my androgenous look. My hair was longer than it'd been in a long time and was so heavily highlighted it was almost completely blonde. I had my brows waxed the day before and a loose roller set on 2" velcro rollers that morning. I wore subdued makeup and large hoop earrings. No forms, no heels, and no nailpolish, a black deep v-neck top, girl's jeans, and a pendant necklace. Definately the fem side of androgenous.
I was a little anxious wondering if I'd have any problems, but I didn't see how they could stop me. It was all me. Not a disguise. It turned out to be uneventful. The only comment was, "Um...those earrings!". Unexpectedly, the girl doing the pictures took four shots before she got one that we agreed was good. Always before it was just one and done.
The picture turned out very fem. My hair was much more blonde than I realized. The makeup that I thought was subdued was obvious, as were my earrings. I was very excited to have such a feminine photo on my DL, but that excitement was short lived.
Of course, every time I was asked for ID I was presenting male. The first couple of times it was pretty cool to show that girly ID. Then I was asked for a copy of my DL at work. I told them I lost it, and went to get a replacement. They wouldn't do it! They said it was policy to not issue a new DL just because of a "bad picture". I was paniced! I ended up not having to show my DL at work, but other times when I was unwilling to show such a fem ID continued. It remained very uncomfortable for me to be carrying a girly ID as my only means of official identification, and I was apparently stuck with it for 4 years.
Yesterday I decided I'd try a different tactic. I went to the DL bureau and told them I wanted to renew. Couldn't do that either, because it had only been a year. Along with questions like, "What were you trying to do here" and "What were you thinking", this particular lady evidently took pity on me, and really tried to help. She called in to whoever had authority to approve a change and got permission to issue a new DL.
So, after dealing with an official feminine ID for an entire year, I now have a much more usable and comfortable male one. The experience of presenting a feminine ID in male mode was fun at times, but the embarassing times far outweighed them. Some interesting reactions and interactions, for sure. But, in the end, this had been a really bad idea. I'm so glad to be beyond it.