Originally Posted by
maryklinden
>>Yes I did hide it from my wife for 20+ yrs and am now have many deep problems over it. I just don't want her to go through what my wife is going through. Yet if she is okay with it then I will be supportive.
any way I need/want to know what you girls think.
What do I think?
I think you're a hypocrite:
"A person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives"
You can figure out the rest.