I have not went out with my wife yet. Can anyone tell me how you ask that from her? I would love to go out as a gurl. She is taking me fem style really well and asks me to be that way a lot these days.
Sharee
I have not went out with my wife yet. Can anyone tell me how you ask that from her? I would love to go out as a gurl. She is taking me fem style really well and asks me to be that way a lot these days.
Sharee
The first time I went out dressed with my wife, it was here idea. We went to Vegas, and she told me to take a couple outfits with me. I had fun walking the strip, and playing the slots in several casinos.
I can only wish that someday this might happen. Right now my SO has never seen me dressed.
You could try asking her if she would be comfortable doing this ?
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
If she has seen you dressed & acceptes it, why not mention to her you would like to go out en femme together.
If your wife is supportive and asking you to dress alot then ask her if she wants to go out with you enfemme. Shoot from the hip as they say.
Put a little lipstick on you'll feel better
You will need to wait and carefully develop your relationship in regard to dressing. Give her time to get used to you in the house. Then listen for signs that she feels that dressing ought to be OK in public.
It is hard to shake the protective boy thing when with your SO in girl mode.I find that it isn't so relaxing as a result...fun every so often,though.
First time with my wife was a TG holiday party put on by one of the local groups. I told her I wanted to go and hoped she would go with me, since there would be a lot of other couples there as well.
Second time was in public in Vegas, going to the La Cage show.
DonnaT
Wow! So easy here. Just go out after performing a makeover on her, complete with wig and more stylish makeup than she probably would normally wear. You know, what woman doesn't love being pampered? A great fun outing could be had by the both of you. You going to show her appreciation for her acceptance, by indulging her in a spa like experience. A wig to ease her apprehension for being recognised by anyone. Afterall who is going to recognise you all dolled up? If you two are anywhere close to similar sizes then she could do a little dabbling in your wardrobe. Hey, who knows, she might already be behind your back. If anything, she could be like a lifesize barbie doll. Trust me, if you have confidence in your ability not to be recognised as yourself, out as a Tgirl, then how could she deny the both of you a fun outing as budettes. Think of the new avenue of conversation that will open up about the outing and hopefully more outings. Two sets of heels forward darlings, Dana Digs Sweaters.
I am one that is careful not to push my luck. My wife is very accepting and usually brought up me taking on the next step before I had even thought about it. But once I thought it was time for us to be seen together, I asked. What could she say? No? Well the answer was yes. No surprise since she is always ahead of me.
i wanna do it tooooo!
im out to my wife as well,and she saw me with pantyhose on during our honeymoon so me underdressing is not new to her weve been togather 10 years this feb. but not long ago i told her about jenifer,and at first she was mad resentfull distrusting of me but she just got used to seeing me around the house in heels and skirts and always knew i wore light makeup but she has never seen the complete jenifer from head to toe.iguess thats my next step befor i ask if we can go out together as two women.whew!i still have a few hurdles too.best luck to us both i think. tee hee. jenifer m.
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