First time post for me here... So here's my story:
I'm a 29 yo CD and have been at it off and on for almost 20 years. I have a loving gf now who mostly excepts me as Chloe (she even gave me that name... and yes it's after the Kardasian). As good as it has been between us, we're having problems now.
When I first told her about it, she freaked out and I almost lost her. Luckily, our love for each other, plus a purge, and a bit of therapy on her part got us through it. At that point, I had pretty much tried to except that I may not get a chance to dress again.
Then a year later, the unexpected happened. She became obsessed with the idea of seeing me dressed, and pandora's box was opened once again.
Since then I have been able to dress anywhere from once a month to twice a week with her. Adding to that, I am currently unemployed and have a lot of free time... which I have filled from time to time with things like this forum and other online interactions with other CDs such as IMing.
All of it has been totally innocent, but she seems to believe that these actions are going to lead to me to cheating on her or worse. In fact it almost seems that she views this as cheating on her.
So my question to everyone (GGs too!) is: How can I balance my relationship with my desire to dress and how can I convince her that sites like these are support networks and not dating sites? How do I get her trust back?