hi girls,
i'd really like your opinion on something. Over the past several years I have taken small steps to let my guard down a bit and feminise my appearance by shaping my eyebrows, getting my ears pierced and most recently, growing my brown hair down to just below shoulder length. However I still represent as a guy (or a close approximation!) 100% of the time in public.
Recently I have really wanted to get blonde highlights in my hair. While it certainly isn't uncommon for guys with short hair to get their hair highlighted, I wonder if long (straightened) blonde hair might be too big a giveaway for someone that isn't "out". I wonder if the pink fog is clouding my fading common sense in these matters, or if I'm simply over-thinking it?
I'd really appreciate your thoughts!
Kate xxx