Hi anisha,Originally Posted by Laura Kane
What Laura has said is completely true, even though it may be hard to believe right now, and life may seem like an uphill climb from here. As time passes, hopefully you will come to realize a couple of things:
-You really didn't do anything wrong, and though it's hard, you don't have anything to be embarrassed about.
-The people judging you now about something that is none of their business have alot to learn about compassion and about what is a big deal and what isn't. Especially your girl. She's not required to like cding, and if she can't handle it, fine. But it sounds like the way she handled it, she could learn a thing or two about loyalty. Your'e still the same guy you were yesterday.
I got caught when younger, several times. By friends, family, etc. At the time, I was mortified and thought it was the end of the world. In the end, it made me stronger. I don't go around dressing in front of people who would feel uncomfortable with it, but I don't care at all who knows. I really don't. I trust you will get there too, honey. Have faith in yourself and don't define yourself by the last few days. In the meantime, I am thinking of you. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk. Use this forum. It's here for fun, but also just for times like this. Our arms are open.
Hugs,
Melissa