I'm a little confused and I'm hoping you can shed some light on this issue for me. I've read a lot of conflicting things about it...you have separate names, one for guy mode, one for girl mode...most seem to want addressed with the corresponding pronouns and names according to how dressed. Some say they are integrated and they contain both feminine and male within themselves and they are the same person no matter how they're dressed. Then there are others that almost seem like multiple personalities, even going so far as to totally pretend to be a woman, including flirting with and/or having sex with a guy. Some do this in spite of being married or in a relationship. And they think it's okay. ??? I understand, when dressed, enjoying the validation of male feedback as in attracting a second glance from a guy...but to me that is altogether different than flirting with or having sex with one.
I guess my question here is, do you see yourself as both male and female integrated, or do you see yourself as two identities, a male one and a female one? Please expound if possible. Thank you!