Miss Gendered Lesbian

[marie354]

I was referred to by this term yesterday and I'm not sure how to take it.
What do you think...

[Karren H]

Wow.... I can't even comprehend what it means.. Guess it depends on the tone... If it were like "hey you cute Miss Gendered Lesbian you"!! Then yeah... Other wise... "Go back where you came from you #*$@*# Miss Gendered Lesbian"... Maybe not so cool.. Lol.

Or maybe what they really ment was mis-gendered lesbian?? What ever that means.. Doesn't sound as nice as Miss Gendered.....

[marie354]

Actually it was a friend the coined the term.

[girlyj]

I agree with Karen. I think what your friend probably meant was 'mis-gendered lesbian'. In other words, a lesbian born in the wrong gender - or - the proverbial 'lesbian in a man's body'. As for your friend's intentions, you'll have to decide that for yourself and it depends entirely on the nature of your relationship. Maybe it was an olive branch, maybe it was a passive-aggressive dig, maybe it was nothing.

If you're friends, you should ask what he/she meant. It's the only way to know.

[Yazna]

If somebody tell me in a good sense of the word that I'm a Gender Lesbian...I would take it as a Beautiful eulogy!

[marie354]

Yes, I asked him what he meant, and he did mean it in a nice way since I still prefer to be in the company of women.
Sooo... Since I'm living full-time as a woman that still would rather be with a woman.
He mentioned this term to a couple of guys that were trying to pick me up, and well, they stopped. That's not a bad thing either since I really don't want to lead them on.

[Stephenie S]

It's not "Miss Gendered Lesbian", it's "miss-gendered lesbian". It's a common term. It means you are a lesbian of the wrong gender.

Stephie

[akaCathy]

I like Miss Gendered Lesbian as in Hello Miss Lesbian, may I call you Gendered? I'm with you, Sandra, women are great! Hugs, Cate