I have thought about this and I am not sure why but it is an interesting question because it certainly could be a possibility someday.
If I was confronted with the painful reality of dealing with a terminal illness a number of things had crossed my mind as to what I would want to do if given the opportunity and the things that I certainly would do without question is to continue to work because I would not want to be treated any differently but I would probably arrange to work 4 days rather than 5 days so I could spend more time with my family.
I already have life insurance in place and I would make sure I had a will in place.
I would take my family to Disney world and spend every day with my son and teach him things about life.
I would continue to write in my blog about the importance of family and leave my diary of writings of all my inner feelings to my wife and son.
The one thing I would really want to arrange is to have the opportunity to crossdress in public and gradually ease into it so eventually I would be able to do it more often so people would get to know the real me. By crossdressing and being accepted I would have done what I wanted to do since I was 5 years old.
In the event of my unfortunate passing I would want to be waked in a dress so people could see who I really was.
I am a crossdresser and TG and have been so afraid to admit it or tell people but feel if I knew I was dying I think all my fears and insecurities would go away and I wouldn't care what people thought of me in a dress any more. It's a shame that it would come to this because it would be so much nicer to know I have a long life ahead of me and that I could crossdress in public and be accepted.
Something to think about.
emmi