I am not sure I chose the best wording, but I mean a sense of contentedness that would be crossdressing acceptance. if our spouse accepts that we underdress, that we have this need, that is fine. but most still can't go out in public showing anything-no wearing open toed sandals that show, if you wanted to, nylon hose-or ladies regular shoes and slacks with nylon encased ankles. That gets to be too blatant. But there always seems another 'milestone' that can't be achieved. wonder why this is?