Here is a conundrum.
Now it is November here in England, and virtually all the women are wearing trousers. In fact, they dress in pants, shirts and jerseys just like the men. A lot wear boots. They mostly have some kind of wind and rain proof jacket.
And very often their clothes are indistinguishable from male clothes. The trousers zip man’s side. Often the top is a man’s shirt. The jacket is mostly a male one.
But it is rare to see a woman and not be able to tell she is a female. Their dress may be all male, but there is very seldom any doubt about who they are. They make no attempt to ‘pass.’
So why is it so important for us gurls to have to 'pass'? Why can’t we be men who happen to be wearing a skirt, a dress, high heels, a pretty blouse? What’s different?
If we do go out in female clothes, people look askance at us, think we’re queer, and/or laugh at us.
I’d love to go out and about in a skirt - but I don’t. Bravery is not my strong point.
Perhaps I’ll buy a kilt.
Any ideas, ladies?
Edwina